Why Weldmar’s Light up a Life has a place in our hearts

Family members, including daughter Lynn and granddaughter Lucy, will be remembering her once again through Light up a Life. Lynn says, “We go to the service at the hospice every year as I feel a real connection there. There is something very special about the service, and going to hang our star on the tree.” 

Rita became unwell in 2017, and it all happened very quickly, as Lynn explains. “She was diagnosed with Motor Neurone Disease that November, which came out of nowhere. The diagnosis was just twelve days before she died. It progressed so rapidly, and the Senior Palliative Care Nurse at Yeovil hospital referred her to Weldmar. “

“I travelled in the ambulance with Mum, and the thing that touched me immediately is that we were taken through the front door of the building. Not ushered in through the back, but right through the front. I thought that said a lot. Two nurses were waiting to receive her, and she was put a beautiful room.” 

Lynn says the team at the Inpatient Unit made them feel so comfortable and welcome. “Mum was assessed very quickly by Dr Peter. She was frightened and distressed with what was going on, but after he administered medication she calmed down as was in a better place. As a family, we were also looked after for the five days we were there, until Mum died. 

As a result of the family’s experience with Weldmar, they have become regular supporters, donating to our charity shops, buying Christmas cards and books, taking part in fundraising events (Lucy has just completed Weldmar’s Overseas Challenge in the Sahara, and is a Volunteer Ambassador), and of course, attending Light Up A Life. 

“For me,” explains Lynn, “it’s makes my grieving process more comfortable, especially because I know how well Mum was cared for. The service is perfect, the right balance of carols and readings, not too long, and feels more traditional than religious. It has a place in our hearts.